Summer vacations are a time for children to enjoy experiences away from home. It’s also something that can lead to considerable stress for their parents if they aren’t involved in a relationship any longer.
Planning a vacation when you have a child custody situation can be challenging. It’s critical that you consider specific factors so you can try to reduce the stress and still get to enjoy your vacation with your children.
Check the parenting time schedule
Before booking any flights or making hotel reservations, review the parenting time schedule outlined in your custody agreement. Many custody plans include specific provisions for holidays, school breaks and summer vacations. Double-checking these details ensures that your vacation plans don’t conflict with the other parent’s scheduled time. If adjustments are needed, communicate early and get any agreements in writing.
Plan for unrushed travel
Traveling with children can be stressful, especially when rushing to meet tight timelines. Give yourself plenty of buffer time for flights, road trips or other activities. Avoid scheduling trips that return the night before school starts or immediately before the next custody exchange. Planning for a relaxed travel pace reduces stress on both you and your children, making the trip more enjoyable and transition times smoother.
The parenting plan should contain terms related to travel and vacations. If you’re just getting this plan together, be sure that you consider these. It may be beneficial to work with someone who can help you to get everything set in a way that reflects the best interests of your children.
